"It's not lady like" Let me stop you there because I've heard it all. Popping out children does not mean that I am to follow lady rules and be a fashionista mommy. I like makeup and clothes as much as the next lady but I will cuss like a sailor until my dying day that's just who I am.
Let me tell ya'll a story.
I was recently in a heated argument with a random girl on Facebook over a comment on a post that she had no business replying to, but because she wanted to stick her brown nose where it did not belong. So she went into a complete bitch mode "Blah, blah, blah" Don't you just love that. Yes, I know that its Facebook and I shouldn't expect any less but one thing that I can not stand is a condescending tone. She continued to call me sweetheart and Hon all the while having an all about me, "I'm right" attitude in her replies. For one I'm not your sweetheart lady and just back off the post, it would have been a simple fix for the both us of us but ignorance won her over.
This is the bitchiness of some people, the world has failed us. It's turned privacy into an open book, it's allowed connections through the internet with only 50% true intentions. It's conditioned and composed us to believe that our attitudes towards others is justifiable because of this or that. Excuse after excuse we find ways to turn the page and avoid taking fault. We are so quick to place blame that the action becomes habitual and we are then stuck in a spiral of " I'm always right, never wrong" We do not use our critical thinking skills like we used to, we don't rely on data or facts but on the he said she said and what technology says is correct. I fear if the technological grid would be wiped out a good portion of the population would be left with their thumbs up their asses. I also can not help but assume that because we have fallen into the pattern of placing blame that a lot of the crimes and murders that have taken place in these last few years is the result of unhappy voting. We take things half folded and faced down and watch the actions of those in power, if we disagree we act out. We become Bitchy and rebellious over a cause that would change nothing, It's a never ending cycle that will lead to destruction. It's almost 2018 and we have failed to see that reasoning and logic are our best bet when it comes to survival without the basics we either end in fear, or hatred, anger and sadness. The negative will forever override the positive because we ALLOW it to. I'm not saying that being bitchy is a bad thing because we all can get a bit bitchy especially if someone talks about things that hit a nerve inside all of us. What I'm talking about is the intentional unwanted bitchiness, the because I can bitchiness. It's clear that the person knows that they are acting or sounding a certain way but will turn around and say "Treat people the way that you want to be treated" Hypocritical. My question is Where do they learn this behavior and who's teaching these actions as proper. I'm shaking my head typing this because come on people wake up and see that kindness, extends a long way. show it, speak it, live it.
If you have someone that would benefit from reading these words I urge you to share and always comment what you think? Commenting helps me improve what I write about.
Thank you,
Madyson
